If masking and code-switching count, yeah. I change my metaphorical shirt way too often. On the other hand, I’m learning so show up exactly as I am and require reciprocity and respect, especially in transactional relationships.
Ah, masking. I did this my whole life until a few years ago. I totally get that! There’s freedom in the everyday, but it comes in the small increments where we show up — and often explain. But that’s okay because we are all learning.
White male faux-Christians.
On target. I love men (although I don’t sleep with them) and I know so many great guys. But the Handmaids malarkey has to go.
If masking and code-switching count, yeah. I change my metaphorical shirt way too often. On the other hand, I’m learning so show up exactly as I am and require reciprocity and respect, especially in transactional relationships.
Ah, masking. I did this my whole life until a few years ago. I totally get that! There’s freedom in the everyday, but it comes in the small increments where we show up — and often explain. But that’s okay because we are all learning.